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No God's Best: Of Lists and Limits

Last week, I started on a series called "No God's Best" which aims to redirect Christian efforts when it comes to finding a potential life partner. My previous post talked about not trying to find validation via the world's external standards, or worse - delude ourselves by creating confirmation that isn't there, especially when done via our own extra-biblical means.

I say extra-biblical since the Bible has no specific guidelines on dating itself, but it does give us wisdom on how to seek God's will, or how to be a godly man and woman. (See: Ephesians 5:15, Hebrews 1:1-3, Titus 2:11-13, Proverbs 31, I could go on) Usually, what people tend to do with this information is write them all down in curated lists and hope & pray that they find someone who gets to tick every single item on it. Today we'll talk about how this kind of thinking can be dangerous for anyone who is looking to get into a relationship.

Here's the thing. I…

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